tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580898742645753422.post5183782379659878646..comments2023-10-01T10:27:21.384-04:00Comments on the art of grief: Dragonabandonedsoulshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06020499806998154330noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580898742645753422.post-22103908296381423962009-11-28T09:58:59.812-05:002009-11-28T09:58:59.812-05:00that moon photo is beautiful and sad at the same t...that moon photo is beautiful and sad at the same time .... have posted photo on the relevant post, however it wasn't full length, so will take photo of shoes when I get energy to do so!!!! How pathetic is THAT?<br /><br />Keep warm, sleep well and know that I love you (both) too xxxBoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10695496303699631884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580898742645753422.post-2020328699826162682009-11-28T09:09:28.171-05:002009-11-28T09:09:28.171-05:00thank you both. i'm a little worse today. i ...thank you both. i'm a little worse today. i just got up to check messages and i'm going back to bed. more Robitussin and crossing my fingers i can get this stuff out of my chest. i love you, Debbie and Boo. Debbie, you keep getting better and Boo, take care of yourself so you don't get sick and i want to see your sequined shoes. =0)abandonedsoulshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06020499806998154330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580898742645753422.post-21597980003659400602009-11-28T07:49:40.023-05:002009-11-28T07:49:40.023-05:00I wondered if you would get ill ... because I thin...I wondered if you would get ill ... because I think that the anticipation of these "big days" such as Thanksgiving stress us so ... we panic, "are we going to cope" etc etc, then afterwards it culminates in illness (for me usually at least). And that sucks because being ill makes it even worse, makes us feel more alone and vulnerable. I know.<br /><br />You are a beautiful Mom - you even protect your children from your own hurt ... but I'm sure that children as intelligent and caring as yours will be under no illusion, yet are powerless to take the hurt away.<br /><br />I believe that when we see our husbands again, we will realize how little time we had to suffer compared to the eternity we shall have with them ... but for now, THIS feels like an eternity in itself doesn't it?<br /><br />Take time to gently ease yourself out of the complete darkness. Look for Jude's lighthouse, you will see it when you are ready, and until then, we shall hold you safe in our hearts.<br /><br />Love always<br />Boo<br />xxxBoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10695496303699631884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580898742645753422.post-28899642795681055512009-11-27T22:35:34.239-05:002009-11-27T22:35:34.239-05:00I'm so sorry you're not feeling well. I k...I'm so sorry you're not feeling well. I know how horrible that is, especially on your own, and I wish I was close enough to bring you honey lemon tea and sit by you. <br /><br />Your Dragon is there, watching over you and knowing that although you are hurting so much now, when you are together again it will be wonderful. And time for our loved ones who have moved on is so different from our measure of time. Our minutes and hours drag on forever, but I believe that for them time moves in the blink of an eye. For some reason, it is not our time yet and we have a purpose to fulfill here before we can join our loves.<br /><br />In the meantime, I have been told that as we fall asleep and first begin to wake up, we are the closest to our loves who have moved on to heaven. It is then that we can most easily sense them, communicate with them and hear their wings as they hover over us, watching and taking care of us. I hope that as you layed down tonight, you felt your Dragon close, as he moved in to watch over you for the night. He is there, he loves you immensely and until it's time for you to join him, we are here to listen, to care and to share your pain. <br /><br />Thinking of you and hoping those iron weights are lifted soon.<br /><br />DebbieDebbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13743446066024389563noreply@blogger.com