tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580898742645753422.post6438954741608086744..comments2023-10-01T10:27:21.384-04:00Comments on the art of grief: melancholiaabandonedsoulshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06020499806998154330noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580898742645753422.post-50883325325221260972015-04-19T08:50:13.801-04:002015-04-19T08:50:13.801-04:00thank you both so much for your understanding. wh...thank you both so much for your understanding. when i write here, it probably seems like i am truly suffering deeply on a daily basis. for the most part i am okay, okay being the operative word. i am fine but have my low moments. i vent here. get it out of my system. i appreciate all the comments, the support. i appreciate all of you.<br /><br />peace to all who read. peace and light to all who grieve.abandonedsoulshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06020499806998154330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580898742645753422.post-50693508192231665612015-04-18T18:56:16.934-04:002015-04-18T18:56:16.934-04:00I am so sorry to read you feel like this, - please...I am so sorry to read you feel like this, - please know you are not alone. I feel like the outsider again after being widowed, - my small portion of being "normal" ie, with someone who understood me - is over, and am now back to the familiar and sad feeling of being alone. Children gone, home town gone, familiar faces gone. I too recently saw pictures of an old friend with her two sisters, and surrounded my genuinely joyful family members, and the pain, oh my God! What would I give for connections like that, and to belong somewhere. For some reason, it is back to the lonely path. So no, please do not feel like the only one of your tribe left :) there are others out here too, - but oh boy, that pain of wishing I had a little bit of that soul community hurts like hell! take care and best wishes from a friend in England.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580898742645753422.post-14764273114847269402015-04-14T22:25:15.077-04:002015-04-14T22:25:15.077-04:00Yes--I understand as I was missing Fred so much th...Yes--I understand as I was missing Fred so much this morning. I am so grateful for the time we had, but I wish we had met decades earlier and that we didn't makes me a bit angry. It is as it is. Most of the time, that is all right, but some of the time...it just isn't.Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.com